How Is A Woman Supposed To Flirt?

to flirt

I touch my hair and move it around my shoulders.

I look at the man straight in the eyes and I smile.

I tease with my touch and I give in.

I tell funny things and laugh sincerely. I don’t talk about my health problems.

I am teasing and unpredictable, memorable, charming and fun, sparkling, light and free, sensual, a lover.


Slow motion, move it, slow motion for me.

Yes, you can drive him crazy with your gestures and manners, your voice and confidence. Grab his attention with looks and sensual signals. The kiss on the neck is classic!

So is biting your lips when you look at him. Imagine your fingers are a feather…

Leave the party at its zenith.


A woman should go in the direction in which there is no path or way, explore, and be adventurous in spirit. You can, for instance, touch his nails, or give him unexpected presents – yes – buy sexy stuff for him. Mention you are not wearing any underwear.  When you have to separate, quote Shakespeare’s poetry: “Good night, good night! Parting is such sweet sorrow, that I shall say good night till it is morrow…” Tell him you know him from a past life and you will be eternally curious about him.


Drink for his health!

The aim is to get drunk with him! I think flirting is mandatory when you are drunk…Tattoo his name with henna on your neckline. Forgive him with a smile.  Tell him the time spent with him is more precious than gold. Tell him that your heart is beating faster when you think of him.  Tell him it is all going to last forever. Show him how his love has transformed you.


Give him the eye.

You may wink as well – just try to get the message across fluently…

By all means, pluck on your hair as you speak to him!

Do anything to deserve his comment:


If the entire company is laughing – search for his eyes, to find out if he finds the situation as funny as you do. Blame him for all the fun. Be relaxing and positive. Laugh from the heart. Be like a child.

Show him some honest admiration and approval.

Enjoy his presence and his presents – big time!

Do something to deserve your roses!


In the sparkle of your eyes, you have to admit that the answer to each of his questions is “yes!”

Let him look into your eyes and see what he means to you!

Don’t forget to fling casually into the conversation that you think he is handsome – as beautiful as the morning. In fact, bring all kinds of compliments on your talk. Men love to know they are heroes – at least in your perceptions.  Make sure you notice everything about him. Pick a sparkling bridal dress – photograph yourself and send him the picture.

Do not forget to add some glitter to your eyes.


Lying helpless into each other arms, loving each other – does it ever get any better than this? Wear a red dress, which floats in the air.


Keep your crush inside you, but don’t forget to imply you like him on plenty of occasions. Honestly ask for a kiss.

Be ready for an adventure…

Be natural and yourself.



Tell him he is into your “inappropriate thoughts.” Share hot coffee and fresh food with him. Make him fall in love with the tension of sitting centimeters next to you – when you can cut the air between you with a knife like butter.

A Lover

When he’s had a rough day – give him a rough night!

Be careful how you touch him.


If you break his heart – come back.

Author: LadyF

I know that I can speak about writing until I annoy even the most patient person. It obviously is more than a passion to me. Dean Kansky said: "You know, the Greeks didn't write obituaries. They only asked one thing after a man died: "Did he have passion?"

1 thought on “How Is A Woman Supposed To Flirt?

  1. So fun to hear the complex mechanics of female flirting broken down like this, with visuals and all! I might be much more tuned in, the next time I am having a face-to-face chat with a charming woman. My “flirt meter” will be whirring in my head, if it looks like we have some chemistry. I DO love the hair play, as long as it doesn’t go in her mouth. That’s a turnoff for me. I love the advice “If he’s had a rough day, give him a rough night.” 😉

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