In their adolescence, girls who genuinely like you act as if you do not exist. Most of them never develop from this stage. So, we may speak of the attitude of mature women, vs. the attitude of immature women in a relationship, and in the act of courtship. We recognize the following trends:
- The immature woman apologizes, the mature woman compensates.
It’s clear that women, who are loved shine most of the time. But let’s speak of the less pretty moments when she has hurt you and annoyed you. Your immature girlfriend will start apologizing, denying everything as in: “please, I didn’t mean it, please forgive me!” The mature woman snaps out of it fast, and then gives you some of her irresistibility, in the next situation, and when you are completely overwhelmed with her, she asks you if you are still angry with her – so that you can see she remembers what she’s done to you, and that brings you to tears of tender emotion.
- The immature woman is needy, while the mature woman is generous.
It’s crystal clear that little people always want something from people around them. One must fuss about them the entire time. Mind you, men really like that, because it sends signals that they are needed, which they relish in. On the other side, the mature woman is the Queen, who is ready at her coronation, to wash the feet of 12 beggars from the capital, to show she is ready to serve the people.
- Both suck when you try to make them jealous.
The immature woman will cry her heart out, but she will tell you everything is okay. The mature woman will cry her heart out and she will tell you how much in love she is, and how you have to stop doing this to her. Before she admits it, she might demonstrate how she felt, by making you feel jealous as well – but you should notice the crookedness of her smile – she smiles as if somebody’s poking her with a fork. But at some point, somehow, she will ask, “do not give this pain to me, I do not deserve it!”
- Both are suckers for compliments
But if you ask an immature woman if she is fishing for compliments, she denies, while the mature woman admits it with a smile. Besides, the mature woman looks for an occasion to return the compliment.
The basic reasons “real men” are into mature women are the following:
When you try to hurt her, she will nurture your confidence, because she knows that’s what’s wrong.
When you try to deny your needs, she gives everything to you.
She knows how to take care and please.
She is supportive of you, even if you act like a complete idiot to test her.
She will call you first. She will know what to say.
She has a particularly breathtaking and happy ways of giving in.
She’s into you and you know it.