How To Love Yourself

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How To Love Yourself

No, Lady F does not have in mind narcissism.

Madonna says that until you learn to love yourself, you will never ever be loved by anybody else.

Humans are imperfect creatures, with a strongly inherent desire to be perfect. When they feel they are less perfect than others, they get worried. For superficial people – that has to do with looks. They strive the entire time to conform with the styles and fashion of others. They love to mingle in the crowd. If they do not look the way others do, they have trouble loving themselves. For perfection seems so irresistible! Everybody wants to be sexy as a box of chocolate.

It all comes from comparing yourself to other people. Know that you are incredible just the way you are and there is place for you under the Sun. I know the most beautiful girl in the world, and she is really insecure when it comes to looks. It’s weird – it’s like being a millionaire and feel financially insecure.

The List of Wonderful Virtues

To gain self-love you have to make a list of things you love about yourself. For instance, Lady F loves:

  • Being really creative
  • Usually being soft-spoken and gentle
  • Being kind and curious
  • Always being merry and bright
  • The fact that her hair is so smooth to the touch
  • Her enticing sensuality
  • As well as her curvy body
  • Her sexy look
  • The fact that she is in love. Always.

Well Lady F can go on till infinity. If she asks her family about it, they will probably be able to list hundreds of her virtues, skills and reasons for self-love.

In order to love yourself – you first must find the things that make you, you. Dr. Seuss says in “Happy Birthday to You!” “Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.”

The List of Flaws

Since you are as unique as a snowflake, you now have to learn to accept your shortcomings. Make a list of them as well. It’s time to admit that Lady F is:

  • Quite messy
  • Very peculiar
  • An Internet addict
  • Distastes geography
  • Is quite plumpy.
  • And that’s not all.

So she loves her virtues, but she loves her flaws as well, for they make her who she is and shape her character – which means, yes, Lady F is completely happy with herself just as she is.

The Practice of Self-Care

You have to strive every day to feel amazing and feel your best. Choose whatever makes you tick – good music, movies, personal style. Take that little extra time to treat yourself better, because personal care makes your mood wonderful. Your mood is essential for self-confidence. To love yourself you need to give value to yourself. So be generous: apply cosmetics, listen to cool stuff, go for a walk, get a massage, pamper yourself, treat yourself, never compromise on yourself.

Keep a Journal

Take some time to put down in handwriting all things that make you feel grateful every day. In order to feel good about yourself, you have to work. But do not get a job – get a life. Work on your dreams. Be bold and daring and awesome!

What are the secrets of loving yourself

You have to embrace everything you are. You are the one who creates the rules in your reality, you are the big boss,  the divine spark. Feel you are free to love yourself. To love yourself you need courage to realize that you are responsible for how you feel.

When you start loving yourself you will see miraculous, lovely things happening in the world around you.

You can like the life you’re living.

You can live the life you like.

With loving yourself – it’s both ways.


Author: LadyF

I know that I can speak about writing until I annoy even the most patient person. It obviously is more than a passion to me. Dean Kansky said: "You know, the Greeks didn't write obituaries. They only asked one thing after a man died: "Did he have passion?"

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